Saturday, July 17, 2004

Get a grip us girls!

This goes out to female species after you get yourself a bfren.

How often do you actually feel comfortable shopping with your gfrens instead? What about having a real, sincere conversation over coffee, (no, not just once in two months)just gals? What about holding weekly sports session for just gals? What about not going crazy for just staying at home and figure out a new self improvement plans such as home aerobics, redecorating, reading other than going for a hair wash etc WHILE your bfren needs to spend time to play futsal or go for teh tarik to talk about football, other chics, cars, their own instincts about Noritta n Canny Ong's case (which you have no idea wht it's all about) which you'll find boring and wanna leave after 1/2 an hour if you had tagged along (see guys always have fucked up, long winded healthy agendas!)

What about driving yourseves to Citibank to pay up your dues instead of waiting till your bfren is free to drive you? How often do you say 'yes' to your gfrens on requests to meet up without checking if your bfren is also having an official apmt with ppl you approve(so tht you can make sure he's not seeing another)? I mean of your own intentions!!

Do you actually experience being able to see your friend only when she's about to breakup coz she suddenly feels lonely, or better, only after she breaks up because she needs to tell herself that life goes on! Then when they made up, she doesn't need u anymore.
Well, I'm lucky to have friends who do put fair priority towards her friends, who has integrity with her promises with us.
But really, I see too many girls out there who are too clingy and get insecure and left out and berserk if their bfren leaves them alone for more than 1/2 a day, especially on the days he rises late.

Idea: Get involved in a new hobby, fraternity, association , read more general knowledge issues so that more things will open up and become meaningful to you other than just your bfren. Once in awhile, arrange for a group trip, the research work will keep you occupied and excited. Arrange for male n female sports sessions. Just come up with self project and group project, anything.

So our kind won't seem empty, pathetic, insecure and lack of character and over self pampering.
And guys, stop calling your gal 10 times an hour if she's out with her frens and late 1/2 an hour to see you! If you need to see her all the time, get married.

"In the next 10 years, I don't wanna look back and regret for the things I wish I had done" - Zain
Ponder the morals behind the episodes in Sex and The City (guys, it's not just a feel good show!).

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